Can anybody avoid the fate??????

Everybody wishes to have the best life possible....without any single problem coming his way. But is it really possible????? I guess we all know the answer....Its a perfect 'NO'. Fate takes its toll, no matter how you try to avoid it. Maybe I'm sounding a bit depressed, but life is sometimes depressing and no matter how you try to cheer it up, you just lose the battle. Someone said that battles are fought to win, but if someone is winning there is a loser side also!!!!! What about it....and if life places you at a crossroad where no matter which path you take you lose,then what the hell is one supposed to do?????? I haven't found an answer to this...but as I gain experience, I hope to find this answer also. Hope God helps me. God bless all.